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The thrill of spanking is a personal one that can be shared

I am an individual who has always enjoyed the pleasures of spanking and, of course, discipline. I enjoy both administering disciplinary and sensual spankings. All methods
I am a dominant. However, this part of me which is intrinsic, although always present, need not enter into the full realm of BDSM.
Sexual activity can enter into all forms of spanking. Yet, engaging in such activities is not necessary to reach satisfaction.
If you simply need a firm hand to provide you a means to an end vis-à-vis a catharsis I can accomplish this. If you are seeking role-playing I am fond of this and will satisfy numerous roles. If you simply desire to lay over my lap and purr, "spank me" I would take pleasure in this as well.
Both spanking as a measure of discipline and heightened erotica excites me emotionally, spiritually, mentally and physically. Although the latter is often reached I do not have to explore that area of piqued interest.

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Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:Dear god, the next thing you'll want to know is where I like to have lunch!
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:Ah, too be young again! The Staten Island Ferry (New York).

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageItalian
BuildAthletic / toned
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureLegs
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitlePhotographer (freelancing) past partner Delmar Stu

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchDear god, am I to demonstrate my arrogance so soon!
Just be real, raw and simply yourself. No need to be pretentious.
Our first dateDinner. My favorites are Social on State, Tranquil, the Loft, great spot in Owego, Tioga Trails Cafe. Indeed, a must, and many other places.
On New Years I took a date––actually, a former lover albeit brief, and thankfully I dismissed her––to the Loft for dinner then Social on State (Binghamton, NY) for the festivities. Naturally, we sought shelter in the heated tent and bar.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on bySadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyVerbal humiliation
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasCountless. It is all a matter of perspective and the one I am involved with.

Fetishes

FetishesMedical / Enema, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a year
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets
"Off Limits":Children, scat, cutting, needle play
I am an open individual who has experienced myriad facets and agendas of BDSM and sex.
The "toys" selected above are those, like others, that I have used during sessions

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyOh stop humoring me!
Fantasy sex partner:Again, you'd like me to reveal my inherent arrogance and sarcasm!

Simply be honest regarding your desires, needs and boundaries.

Spanking Preferences

Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Pain level:No limits