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Spanking, spanking, spanking...that’s what I’m here for. I’m not a BDSM kinkster, just a (married) spanko who needs lots of spanko friends . I might let you spank me if you’re the dominant type. I’ll definitely spank you if you’re the submissive type. Or we can take turns...spanking for punishment, spanking for motivation, spanking for stress release, spanking for pleasure.

If you get a “flirt” from me it probably means I like you !

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Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasyMy absolute favorite fantasy is a very VERY naughty girl who needs some serious over-the-knee, with my hand, then something leather, and finally the back of a wooden brush. She apologizes, begs, sobs...but we both know she needs to be spanked past that point, all the way to limp submission.

Then and only then, I gently take her up onto my lap and hold her, stroke her hair, kiss her cheek, while she cries.

There’s a bonus fantasy where that transitions to sexytime...but until we have been doing the first part regularly it’s not time to talk about the second part.
Does your partner know?Yes
How often does your spouse leave you alone?Often enough. :-) I’m *ethically* nonmonogamous.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height170 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShoulder length
Facial HairBeard
Best featureArms
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionNo special condition
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
AvailabilityMy Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Sensitivity, Wit
My perfect matchA dyed-in-the-wool lifelong spanko like myself.
Our first dateTalking to get to know one another and figure out whether we have the right kind of chemistry.

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Munches, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
"Off Limits":I’m really here for spanking, not sex. If we like each other SO MUCH that we want to consider adding something more sexual, then we can talk about limits.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyTender sex that begins while you’re still sobbing/limp/face wet from your recent spanking

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Sometimes
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee
Implement:Hand, Hairbrush, Wooden Spoon
Response:Tears
Pain level:Heavy Marks