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My butt your hand what could be better

Older woman new to this lifestyle. I always wanted to try it. Married but husband ok with. A gentleman between 35-50 with experience. Guess you could call be a cougar but there is so much of a little girl in me that needs to be taught a lesson.

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Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasyMeeting for drinks or tea/coffee talk then have a session. I’m shy but sex would be nice. Hold me after a session. Maybe you could be the doctor and I’m the nurse (used to be one) and just improvise.
Does your partner know?Yes
How often does your spouse leave you alone?It depends


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
BuildA few extra pounds
Height168 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionDepression
Bra size38 / 85
Cup sizeB
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityMy Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusRetired

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Passiveness
My perfect matchA caring but firm gentleman that knows I need a strict disciplinarian. I would like a bit of fun after like friends with benefits.
Our first dateHonest conversation about what we want. A “session “ would be nice.
Age36-45, 46-55
EthnicityCaucasian / White
Body typeA few extra pounds, Average, Fit, Muscular


FetishesLace / Lingerie, Medical / Enema, Panty

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a month
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isNever tried it
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Torture
I love animals so none of that
Frightening me
Golden Showers

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Bent under the arm
Implement:Hand, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Pain level:Light Marks